[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/jak-to-rici\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/jak-to-rici\/","headline":"Jak to \u0159\u00edci?","name":"Jak to \u0159\u00edci?","description":"Pravidlo \u010d\u00edslo jedna zn\u00ed: „Mluvit pravdu“. Jakkoliv je to pro v\u00e1s t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, bu\u010fte k d\u00edt\u011bti up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed. Nevyh\u00fdbejte se jasn\u00e9mu sd\u011blen\u00ed. Ur\u010dit\u011b ned\u00e1vejte d\u00edt\u011bti fale\u0161n\u00e9 nad\u011bje, \u017ee se \u010dasem k sob\u011b s partnerem vr\u00e1t\u00edte. Pokud u\u017e v\u00edte, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1te praktick\u00e9 […]","datePublished":"2023-05-06","dateModified":"2023-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"demkovic.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a339587_w2651_t1552754008.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a339587_w2651_t1552754008.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/jak-to-rici\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":536,"articleBody":"Pravidlo \u010d\u00edslo jedna zn\u00ed: „Mluvit pravdu“. Jakkoliv je to pro v\u00e1s t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, bu\u010fte k d\u00edt\u011bti up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed. Nevyh\u00fdbejte se jasn\u00e9mu sd\u011blen\u00ed. Ur\u010dit\u011b ned\u00e1vejte d\u00edt\u011bti fale\u0161n\u00e9 nad\u011bje, \u017ee se \u010dasem k sob\u011b s partnerem vr\u00e1t\u00edte. Pokud u\u017e v\u00edte, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1te praktick\u00e9 fungov\u00e1n\u00ed s d\u00edt\u011btem po va\u0161em rozchodu, citliv\u011b mu svoj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu nasti\u0148te – tj. bu\u010fte p\u0159ipraveni, \u017ee s ohledem na v\u011bk d\u00edt\u011bte je mo\u017en\u00e9 zohlednit i jeho n\u00e1zor \u010di p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. A nezapome\u0148te, \u017ee pomysln\u00e9mu ide\u00e1lu, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt pro mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f nedosa\u017eiteln\u00fd, je promluvit o tom v\u0161em spole\u010dn\u011b, v klidu a bez v\u00fd\u010ditek. Pravidlo \u010d\u00edslo dv\u011b: „Nepomlouvat partnera“. Ur\u010dit\u011b pom\u016f\u017eete va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti sm\u00ed\u0159it se s tak n\u00e1ro\u010dnou \u017eivotn\u00ed situac\u00ed l\u00e9pe a rychleji, pokud nebudete druh\u00e9ho partnera obvi\u0148ovat z rozchodu, ur\u00e1\u017eet \u010di na n\u011bj p\u0159ed d\u00edt\u011btem k\u0159i\u010det. Ani manipulativn\u00ed v\u011bty typu „Co te\u010f budu s\u00e1m\/sama d\u011blat?“ nebo „J\u00e1 j\u00ed\/mu uk\u00e1\u017eu!“ do rozhovoru s d\u00edt\u011btem nepat\u0159\u00ed. Zkuste si p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b stoj\u00ed na dvou pil\u00ed\u0159\u00edch, jedn\u00edm je t\u00e1ta, druh\u00fdm je m\u00e1ma. Kdy\u017e mu jeden z nich zo\u0161kliv\u00edte, nem\u016f\u017ee se o n\u011bj op\u0159\u00edt a vyr\u016fst v dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho. Pravidlo \u010d\u00edslo t\u0159i: „Nemus\u00edte \u0159\u00edkat v\u0161e.“ D\u00edt\u011b nem\u00e1 rozhled dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho, spoustu vztahov\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed pochop\u00ed, a\u017e kdy\u017e vyroste. V\u0161e, \u010demu nerozum\u00ed, v n\u011bm jen zvy\u0161uje m\u00edru zmatku a nepochopen\u00ed. Va\u0161e dobr\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce mus\u00ed j\u00edt p\u0159esn\u011b opa\u010dn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. Vysv\u011btlujte jen to, co se d\u00edt\u011bte p\u0159\u00edmo t\u00fdk\u00e1 a jen zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd je vhodn\u00fd pro jeho v\u011bk. C\u00edlem nen\u00ed mu podat precizn\u00ed obraz toho, co se mezi v\u00e1mi stalo. Va\u0161\u00edm \u00fakolem je situaci pro n\u011bj zp\u0159ehlednit. Tak\u00e9 z n\u011bj ned\u011blejte vrbu nebo za ka\u017edou cenu „dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho“ par\u0165\u00e1ka. Pravidlo \u010d\u00edslo \u010dty\u0159i se t\u00fdk\u00e1 p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm va\u0161ich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, jak bude d\u00edt\u011b reagovat: „D\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo chovat se d\u011btsky!“ To m\u016f\u017ee znamenat pestrou \u0161k\u00e1lu reakc\u00ed od k\u0159iku a kop\u00e1n\u00ed po tich\u00fd pl\u00e1\u010d nebo r\u00e1doby v\u011bcn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky. Mohou si myslet, \u017ee jsou st\u0159edobodem rodinn\u00e9ho vesm\u00edru a jsou nadm\u00edru d\u016fle\u017eit\u00ed, co\u017e je paradoxn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st i k dojmu, \u017ee to pr\u00e1v\u011b ony m\u016f\u017eou za rozchod rodi\u010d\u016f. Nen\u00ed tedy v\u016fbec od v\u011bci, sd\u011blit i takovou jasnou okolnost rozchodu, \u017ee je to z\u00e1le\u017eitost rodi\u010d\u016f, d\u00edt\u011b za n\u00ed rozhodn\u011b nem\u016f\u017ee, a p\u0159esto\u017ee rodi\u010de se rozch\u00e1z\u00ed, d\u00edt\u011b maj\u00ed oba r\u00e1di nad\u00e1le.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.3\/5 - (13 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak to \u0159\u00edci?","item":"https:\/\/www.demkovic.cz\/jak-to-rici\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]